My female clients
sometimes ask me what they can do to make their partner feel really cherished,
like the man that he really wants to be. I always tell them that you should
take time to really thank your guy - for being a great dad, for being a great
partner, for being a great lover . . . or for just being there for you when you
need him. Little gestures go a long way. Big gestures go even further. When you
go out of your way to make your partner feel special, you are creating memories
that will last the rest of your life.
1. Well, my number one
thing always is take him to a game. Get to know his favourite team and make
sure you catch up the game with him. What happens when you do this is that you
create a fun day that you can share with him. Get some hot dogs, grab a beer,
wear the cute hat with his favorite team's logo that he bought you one time,
cheer like a maniac and have fun!
2. Buy some really sexy
lingerie and surprise him one night by wearing it. Now, don't just do the
typical, "I'm a woman getting dressed up and looking pretty" thing.
Really spend some time preparing for the evening. You could put him in a bubble
bath, pamper him with his favorite sweet treats, or surprise him with a foot
massage. Give him a full-body rubdown with some sensual massage oils while
you're wearing the lingerie so that he can fantasize about how he will get to
rip it off of you.
3. Surprise him with a
fantastic lunchbox filled with his favorite treats, and have it delivered to
his office with a little note that says, "Thinking of you. Can't wait to
see you when you get home."
4. Create a special
treasure hunt for your guy. Take him somewhere that he doesn't expect. Or leave
him little notes throughout the day via email or text message telling him to
meet you somewhere. When he finally gets to the ultimate destination, he will
find you there dressed in an absolutely beautiful and sexy outfit. You can then
have drinks at some incredible restaurant overlooking a cliff, or whatever it
might be. Let him enjoy the atmosphere . . . and you.
5. Send him a nice email
or text message in the middle of the day just to tell him that you love him or
that you were thinking of him. That's it . . . just sending a simple little
reminder of this will make him feel great.
6. Thank him for
something that he's done or pay him a compliment. As you probably already know
about us men, we are always looking for approval and praise. So no matter how
small or routine it might seem - whether he's cleaned up a little more than
usual or he's wearing something that looks great - thank him or compliment him.
A random affirmation will make him feel amazing.
7. Take him shopping and
then surprise him with a present. Buy him something that looks great on him.
Maybe your man is somebody who is very generous to you at all times. It would
be really nice to surprise him one time. So what you might do while you're out
shopping together for the kids, tell him "Let's get YOU something
today." Pamper him a little. Remember that men like to be spoiled, too.
8. Cook him a fantastic
dinner but make it special, like a dinner with a theme. For instance, if your
man loves Italian food, you might put on some Italian music, get dressed up in
a little chef's costume and make him feel like you're together in Italy that
night. Then at the end of the meal, post a little kitchen sign that says,
"Devour me," and make yourself the dessert.
9. Do something he
really likes to do. Spend a day doing something he likes to do. For example, if
he likes to go to Home Depot, then go to Home Depot with him and let him buy
whatever he wants. If he loves to go hiking, spend the day charging up the
trail with him. If you spend a day doing all things that he enjoys, you know
he's going to return the favor for you.
10. Leave him alone.
Now, I don't mean that exactly the way it sounds. What I mean is just let him
have a day to himself to do whatever he wants. Take the kids and leave the
house for a day. Let him invite "the boys" over for the night to play
poker. Let him go on a "boys date" - a night out to hang out with the
guys. Let him have a blast with other men. To really make this a special day
for him, make sure you don't check in with him - don't call him during the
course of the day, don't give him updates about the kids' soccer games, and
don't text him to see if he's having a good time. Just leave him alone. At the
very end of the day, though, text him or email him this note: "I've been
thinking about you all day. I hope you had a wonderful time." That's it.
It will show him that you're still the cool woman that he first fell in love
with.
These 10 tips will not only make your man feel
cherished, but doing them will actually add some spice into your love life! If
you would like to add more suggestions like these, you can always leave a
comment.
By David Wygant
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